Timeless Jewish Wisdom for Today's Single Woman

Aleeza Ben Shalom

star of Netflix hit show

“Jewish Matchmaking”

Devorah offers a rare gift to her readers - a how-to guide to finding your soulmate that is frank, compassionate and hopeful. With authenticity and humor, she shares the wisdom she has acquired throughout her life's work with singles who are dating for marriage, layered on top of the lessons learned from her own dating journey.

Dr. David Lieberman

New York Times best-selling author

"Marry a Mensch" is a masterclass on efficient, confident, and dignified dating. Devorah provides a detailed roadmap that is psychologically sound, rooted in Torah values, and guided by her own journey of self-discovery and spiritual growth. I highly recommend this comprehensive, compassionate, and enlightening book.

Sabrina Bendory

author and relationship coach

“Marry a Mensch” is a must-read for anyone navigating the dating process. Devorah’s writing style is clever, funny, deeply insightful, and she cuts right to the heart of the matter. You will feel like you’re talking to a savvy friend or mentor, who has been there-done that, not being lectured at. She will help you gain an understanding of what you actually need in a partner, moving beyond superficial wants that can distract you from what really matters. You will also gain a deeper understanding of yourself and the life you want, to keep you focused and help you actually get there. Dating for marriage can be overwhelming at times, but Devorah walks you through it from soup to nuts providing invaluable insight to help you navigate the journey.

Inspirational Speaker,
Dating & Marriage
Coach
For Women

"Lead with your head, and bring your heart along."

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Devorah Kigel | Jewish Dating Coach, Jewish Marriage Coach, Jewish Woman Speaker

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So what do I do?
For starters, I help you date more efficiently, clearly and confidently with less stress! In doing so I've helped well over 300 clients marry their soulmate. Watch this quick video to learn more.

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“When you’re dating keep both eyes wide open.
When you’re married keep one eye shut."

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As a professional Dating Coach, I have helped well over 300 women get clarity in their dating life and marry Mr. Right. I have also been teaching classes for women on Jewish topics for over 20 years and my audiences tell me I am inspirational and relatable without being preachy. I received my Masters in French from Middlebury College and lived in Paris for 2 years, before discovering Torah Judaism and becoming observant. I now live in New Jersey with my husband and children. Using humor and honesty, I share the entertaining personal journey that led me to develop powerful tools to have the relationships you desire. In my coaching practice I work with women of all ages and backgrounds.

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"I have had the pleasure of watching Devorah Kigel instruct our students in Judaism, Torah philosophy, and relationships. It is amazing to see how the students' eyes are glued to her, inspired by her words and teachings! Devorah is truly one of the treasures of the Jewish people!"

- Rabbi Bentzion Klatzko
National Educational Director of Olami
Founder, Shabbat.com

"Out of the thousands of dollars I’ve spent on therapy over the years, your one hour yesterday was worth everything to me. Thank you. Very therapeutic and goal oriented. Just wish I had found you sooner.”

- Rita

“Our students at UCSD felt Mrs. Devorah Kigel was truly an inspiration and one of the best speakers they have ever heard. She spoke very candidly and sophisticatedly for our secular students, who are quite intelligent. We felt our students gained a tremendous amount of knowledge and inspiration, which led them to grow and commit more spiritually. We have the highest recommendations and gratitude to Mrs. Kigel and hope you will all experience her brilliance. A true walking Kiddush Hashem!”

- Mrs. Chaya Ertel
UC San Diego
Maimonides Program

“I'm currently taking your 5-part class on dating, and cannot emphasize how much I am enjoying the sessions. I look forward to them every week, and have learned so much. You speak so honestly and do a fantastic job at teaching actionable lessons, and I cannot thank you enough for putting this series together.”

- Amanda

Timeless Jewish Wisdom for Today's Single Woman

Inspirational Speaker, Dating & Marriage Coach For Women

Work with Me

So what do I do? For starters, I help you date more efficiently, clearly and confidently with less stress! In doing so I've helped well over 300 clients marry their soulmate. Watch this quick video to learn more.

“When you’re dating keep both eyes wide open. When you’re married keep one eye shut."

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about ME

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Inspirational Speaker,
Dating & Marriage
Coach
For Women

So what do I do?
For starters, I help you date more efficiently, clearly and confidently with less stress! In doing so I've helped well over 300 clients marry their soulmate. Watch this quick video to learn more.

“When you’re dating keep both eyes wide open.
When you’re married keep one eye shut."