Speaker · Author · Relationship Coach

Date Smart. Marry a Mensch

I help you date with clarity and confidence.

International Speaker

I speak on far more than dating.

Personal growth, marriage, parenting, women's issues and Jewish holidays. Audiences across the U.S., Israel and beyond.

Private Coaching

One-on-one, from first date to chuppah & beyond.

Dating or marriage. Tailored just for you.

Digital Courses

Learn at your own pace.

Workshops launching this Chanukah.

The Deal-Breaker Workbook

Know what you need. Recognize your Mensch.

Find your 10–12 non-negotiables with the Marry a Mensch Deal-Breaker Workbook—a fillable guide to dating with clarity.

400+Clients married
Nearly25Years on stage
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Teaching Jewish classes
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Life changing book
Coaching

So what do I do?

I help women make better choices in their personal and spiritual lives.

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Speaking

I love to teach.

Watch me on stage, then bring me to your community.

Feedback

What people say.

“Out of the thousands of dollars I've spent on therapy over the years, your one hour was worth everything to me. Very therapeutic and goal oriented. I just wish I had found you sooner.”

RitaCoaching client

“I'm currently taking your 5-part class on dating and cannot emphasize how much I am enjoying the sessions. You speak so honestly and do a fantastic job at teaching actionable lessons.”

AmandaDating class participant

“Amazing to see students' eyes glued to her, inspired by her words. Devorah is truly one of the treasures of the Jewish people!”

Rabbi Bentzion KlatzkoNational Educational Director, Olami

“She was so fantastic — funny, serious, deep and relatable. The girls were hanging on her every word.”

Dana L.Event host
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Marriage Pointers

One practical thought.

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