One-on-One

Dating & marriage coaching.

Date and marry with clarity and confidence.

This is not therapy.

Get clear on what really matters — in dating and in marriage. In just a few hours, stop guessing about the things that can shape the rest of your life.

Devorah Kigel, dating and marriage coach
Clients married 0+ and counting
Work With Me

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Thank you for letting me be part of your journey.

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Two minutes on how I work, and who this is for.

If you're dating

Clarity and confidence.

  • Date more effectively
  • Get clarity in the dating process
  • Pinpoint your deal-breakers
  • Be realistic yet hopeful
  • Avoid common pitfalls & bad patterns
  • Minimize anxiety
  • Pick up on “red flags”
  • Have proper expectations for marriage
  • Create a great “dating resume” and put your best foot forward

If you're married

Communication, conflict and connection.

  • Have proper expectations for marriage
  • Learn better communication techniques
  • Problem-solve & resolve conflict
  • Be realistic yet hopeful
  • Create a more peaceful marriage
  • Improve intimacy
The Process

How it works.

01 Intake session About 90 minutes on Zoom, sometimes longer. Everything starts here.
02 Calls as needed 10–30 minutes by phone after dates, or whenever you need support or an objective ear.
03 Available off hours Just had a date and need to talk it through tonight? Reach out, even late. If our schedules don't line up, send me a voice note and I'll get back to you.
The practical bits

Fees

You pay ONLY for the time you use.

From my clients

In their words.

From the dating years to the wedding day.

“Thank you so much for your guidance during the dating period. I genuinely couldn’t have done it without you. Our conversations gave me so much clarity and made this huge decision way easier.”

RoseCoaching client

“I felt so much calmer and relaxed after every phone call we had. You are literally from Heaven!”

SophiaCoaching client

“I can’t thank you enough — your guidance was so practical, level-headed, and approachable, and you brought such a warm and steady presence whenever we spoke. You have a way of checking in that feels natural and supportive, which I could tell was rooted in truly wanting the best for me.”

KaylaCoaching client

“Having you as a dating coach gave me reassurance and practical guidance that made dating much less overwhelming. I was able to show up to each date with more purpose and confidence. I would not have been able to get engaged without your practical tips and help!”

LeahCoaching client

“This coaching session was the best thing I did. Just from one session with Rebbetzin Kigel it helped me gain clarity and view things in a different way. BH it led me on the right path to say yes to my bashert!”

Coaching client

“Thank you again so much for helping me get married to the right man! It’s scary to think what would have happened if I had said no! Thank you again for your guidance ❤️”

Married client

“I took Devorah’s course on successful dating in 2020, and I remember looking forward to each class and taking notes — it was so refreshing because she was saying things that nobody ever taught us about in regard to dating. She encouraged us to have a dealbreaker list and also to give “nice” guys a chance.”

Dating course participant

“I want you to know how much our one coaching session meant to me. When we spoke, I was in a very painful place — after recently being divorced. You encouraged me to stay strong, and you said that when I do get married again, it will be a tremendous kiddush Hashem. Those words stayed with me. And indeed, when the time came, it truly felt like just that. I just married a wonderful man! Thank you for the strength and perspective you gave me in that moment. Wishing you continued success in all the amazing work you do!”

Married client

“So many people have told me how much they benefited from working with you! Your wisdom, your unconditional love and support is legendary!”

Coaching client

“Thank you so much for all your time and wise advice!! It really makes the biggest difference!!”

Coaching client

“Thank you Mrs. Kigel, always giving the best advice 🙏 So thankful to Hashem for you.”

Coaching client

“I feel so much lighter, hopeful and happier after only our first call! You’re so wise and kind — very easy to talk to and relatable as well.”

VictoriaCoaching client

“Thank you so much for all the tools and guidance that you gave me. It really calmed me down. I would not have gotten here without you.”

ChanaCoaching client

“Your guidance was clear, practical, and really boosted my confidence. Dating can be such a rollercoaster and you made me feel supported and validated when I really needed it!”

LibbyCoaching client

Marriage is a constant choice — am I building or destroying?

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