Dating & marriage coaching.
Date and marry with clarity and confidence.
This is not therapy.
Get clear on what really matters — in dating and in marriage. In just a few hours, stop guessing about the things that can shape the rest of your life.
You could be next.
Thank you for letting me be part of your journey.
If you're dating
Clarity and confidence.
- Date more effectively
- Get clarity in the dating process
- Pinpoint your deal-breakers
- Be realistic yet hopeful
- Avoid common pitfalls & bad patterns
- Minimize anxiety
- Pick up on “red flags”
- Have proper expectations for marriage
- Create a great “dating resume” and put your best foot forward
If you're married
Communication, conflict and connection.
- Have proper expectations for marriage
- Learn better communication techniques
- Problem-solve & resolve conflict
- Be realistic yet hopeful
- Create a more peaceful marriage
- Improve intimacy
How it works.
Fees
You pay ONLY for the time you use.
Timing
I'm currently onboarding proactive clients about three weeks out. If you're in a time-sensitive situation, say so on the form and I'll get you in within the week, for a $100 expedited fee.
What to send
Everything I need is on the form below. No phone tag, no waiting on a reply to know what happens next.
In their words.
From the dating years to the wedding day.
“Thank you so much for your guidance during the dating period. I genuinely couldn’t have done it without you. Our conversations gave me so much clarity and made this huge decision way easier.”
“I felt so much calmer and relaxed after every phone call we had. You are literally from Heaven!”
“I can’t thank you enough — your guidance was so practical, level-headed, and approachable, and you brought such a warm and steady presence whenever we spoke. You have a way of checking in that feels natural and supportive, which I could tell was rooted in truly wanting the best for me.”
“Having you as a dating coach gave me reassurance and practical guidance that made dating much less overwhelming. I was able to show up to each date with more purpose and confidence. I would not have been able to get engaged without your practical tips and help!”
“This coaching session was the best thing I did. Just from one session with Rebbetzin Kigel it helped me gain clarity and view things in a different way. BH it led me on the right path to say yes to my bashert!”
“Thank you again so much for helping me get married to the right man! It’s scary to think what would have happened if I had said no! Thank you again for your guidance ❤️”
“I took Devorah’s course on successful dating in 2020, and I remember looking forward to each class and taking notes — it was so refreshing because she was saying things that nobody ever taught us about in regard to dating. She encouraged us to have a dealbreaker list and also to give “nice” guys a chance.”
“I want you to know how much our one coaching session meant to me. When we spoke, I was in a very painful place — after recently being divorced. You encouraged me to stay strong, and you said that when I do get married again, it will be a tremendous kiddush Hashem. Those words stayed with me. And indeed, when the time came, it truly felt like just that. I just married a wonderful man! Thank you for the strength and perspective you gave me in that moment. Wishing you continued success in all the amazing work you do!”
“So many people have told me how much they benefited from working with you! Your wisdom, your unconditional love and support is legendary!”
“Thank you so much for all your time and wise advice!! It really makes the biggest difference!!”
“Thank you Mrs. Kigel, always giving the best advice 🙏 So thankful to Hashem for you.”
“I feel so much lighter, hopeful and happier after only our first call! You’re so wise and kind — very easy to talk to and relatable as well.”
“Thank you so much for all the tools and guidance that you gave me. It really calmed me down. I would not have gotten here without you.”
“Your guidance was clear, practical, and really boosted my confidence. Dating can be such a rollercoaster and you made me feel supported and validated when I really needed it!”
Marriage is a constant choice — am I building or destroying?
Would you like some personal coaching?
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